On this episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we answer a letter from a young woman who has just gone through a divorce but found out that she will NEVER be fully rid of him because of what he’s left her with. Listen in on how we help her begin to navigate the idea of dating, …
Through this process, I felt like I was on an episode of “Fix-Her-Upper” with Chip and Joanna Gaines. But instead of uncovering the beauty of original hardwood flooring under layers of dirt and scum, they were uncovering the beauty of ME under layers of pain and pretend.
On this episode, we are answering a simple, yet DEEP letter where a woman asks, if she should start DATING her Ex-HUSBAND again?!
Divorce is perhaps the ultimate form of rejection that a person can endure, and comes with emotional spikes that immediately places a person on the most dangerous end of the mental health scale.
Divorce is not something that we take lightly or suggest, as a matter of factly. It has great ramifications that can and will stick with you for a while. So we don’t like them, but we do understand their utility. In an effort to not repeat what we say in the book, we’ll just say that, while we, just like Christ, hate divorce; just like Christ we also understand that the function of divorce is safety, survival, and ultimately, healing and thriving.
No. You’re not stupid because you still love them. You’re not crazy because you can’t get them out of your head. Just because you still struggle, doesn’t mean that your faith in God has failed. Your brokenness has a purpose and the purpose is to teach you that, while you were not made for brokenness, you were DESIGNED to survive the break.