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Yes, I Submit to My Wife Too.

Marriage is harder than ever for men to adjust to. We grew up with the idea that men are in charge. We are supposed to go to work, pay bills, and then come home to a clean house and a home-cooked meal. We saw our fathers and grandfathers do it. Depending on the age, it

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The 4-Words That Changed Our Marriage…

It was 2am on a Sunday morning when I was suddenly awakened out of my sleep with debilitating anxiety. We had just had one of our first big fights where we had said big cuss words to each other. I was certain that what we were fighting over, and what had been said, was enough

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How Do We Move On After Infidelity?!

On this episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, We are answering a simple letter from a young woman who asks how to move forward after infidelity. People always talk about how easy it is to leave and walk away, but it’s not always that simple. Here, we give them the tools needed to BEGIN to move

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“Friends” of the Opposite Sex

On This Episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, We are giving you a peek into our podcast for marriages, Covered! We are answering a letter from a wife who says her husband’s childhood best friend is disrespecting her marriage, and her husband is doing NOTHING about it! Listen in as we answer her main questions- -Am

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In-Laws, “It’s His Mom or Me!”

On This episode of the “Covered” Marriage Podcast, we are answering a letter from a HUSBAND who is at a crossroads where he has to choose between his wife and his mother. Listen in as we give them BOTH some great advice on how to better set boundaries with parents and how to work TOGETHER

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Blended Families

On this episode of the COVERED podcast, we are helping a newly-blended family navigate one of the MOST common problems that we face when trying blend and merge households-“His/Her Kids” vs. ME…We give some SIMPLE techniques that MANY couples forget! Listen in as we answer this letter from a young lady who is CONVINCED that

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When Marriage Counseling Doesn’t Work

Despite our best efforts, sometimes marriage counseling doesn’t work the way that we want it to…It doesn’t mean the counselor was bad. It doesn’t mean that you or your spouse didn’t try hard enought. There are so many different variables that can impact how well marriage counseling does or doesn’t work for you and in

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Podcast Rewind-How Could He Move On Like I Never Existed?!?

    On This Episode of The Soul-Ties Podcast, We are doing ANOTHER Rewind where we are tackling a letter from a young lady who invested EVERYTHING into a relationship that she hoped was headed towards marriage…but after YEARS of building a life and buying a home with this man, he suddenly left her. Listen

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Podcast Rewind: I Love Him But He’s Not Ready!!

**AUDIO GETS BETTER AT 4-MIN MARK** This is a Soul-Ties Summer Rewind of one of our most popular episodes! We answer 2 letters from women who are in love with Broken Men and are having a hard time accepting that they aren’t ready AND that they can’t love them through their brokenness… Season 3 begins

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Dating Q&A: Ask Us Anything About Dating

  In This Episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, We spend an entire hour answering your dating questions…And they are SOOOO Good! Take a listen as we answer questions like:   “How soon is it to make your dating intentions known?”“Why do Toxic People Speak My Love Language So Well?!” …And SOO MANY MORE!! Want Us As

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If I Let Him Go, What Will Happen To Our Daughter?!

On this Episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we are answering a letter from a young woman who has been in an on and off relationship with her daughter’s father. He’s woo’d, begged, pleaded, made promises and even threatened suicide to get her attention and get her back! Listen in as we give her some very

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He Wants Me to Choose Between Him and My Family

On today’s episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we answered a letter from a young lady that is conflicted because her boyfriend is forcing her to choose between him and her family and she doesn’t know what to do. We give her some good but HARD advice to take. 

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Everytime we Fight, He Cheats on Me

On This Episode of the Soul-Ties® Podcast, we are answering a letter from a young lady who says her boyfriend admitted to cheating every time they get into a fight! She wants to know how this equates to him loving her! Listen in as we help her understand and decode what this behavior is REALLY

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Why Do I Keep Ending Up With All The Wrong People?!?

On This Episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we are answering a question from a young lady who wants to know why she keeps ALL the wrong men that her city and church has to offer! Listen in as Kenyon and Taccara break down how we can unintentionally attract the wrong people and what we should

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